What information from the sessions does the coach reveal to my company?
The coaching relationship is a confidential one. Coaches will share only information directly related to helping you achieve your goals. They will not reveal any information obtained in interviews, meetings with you, or from feedback instruments. They might prepare an action plan to help your manager continue the coaching process in the workplace.
In some organizations, however, an HR Rep may be involved in the process. Typically, their involvement includes reviewing the 360 data to assist the lead coach in making the best match of coach to client based on needs. However, that level of interaction by someone outside of the coaching relationship is rare.
Next, that same HR Rep may participate in both initial goal-setting meetings with you and your boss and, in any mid-engagement reviews with the coach and your boss. These mid-engagement reviews are designed to "check-in" to ensure that the boss, coach and client are aligned to previously agreed upon development goals and, that some progress is occurring.
These sessions prove to be invaluable in that they ensure alignment to goals and, often serve as a forum to support the client through feedback regarding progress made up to this point in the engagement.
At every stage, however, it is important to note that the coach never reveals session content and, the HR Rep is bound by the same rules of confidentiality as the coach.
The only exception to the confidentiality rule is if the client makes the coach aware that he or she has broken the law or, has the intention to break the law and cause harm to self or others.
Is coaching supposed to make me a different person or change my personality?
Definitely not. Coaching is based on the premise that you're already doing things right, and simply need to complement existing strengths with complementary skills taught to you by the coach.
The coach's job is to assist you in identifying strengths and areas in need of development to enhance your professional skills and, assist you in advancing your career.
Although many therapists practice as business coaches, there are ethical questions that arise from that dynamic. The Therapist-as-Coach can indeed be effective in supporting a client to strive towards improved performance; however, the approach must remain within the appropriate structure of a business coaching engagement, not a therapeutic one.
In the end, business coaching is designed to support you in achieving higher levels of success in your career, not engage you in any form of psychoanalysis.